How to Transition from Public School to Homeschooling: A Step-by-Step Guide for Families Making the Switch

If you’re thinking about transitioning your kids from public school to homeschooling, I know exactly how daunting that decision feels. It’s exciting, maybe a little nerve-wracking, and full of questions like, Where do I even start? or How do I make sure my kids don’t miss a beat?

You’re not alone! Thousands of families make this switch every year, and while it comes with its challenges, it’s one of the most rewarding decisions you can make for your kids. Homeschooling lets you tailor your child’s education to fit their needs. Let’s take a deep breath, break it down step by step, and get your family ready for this new adventure.

Step 1: De-Schooling — Give Your Kids (and Yourself) Time to Adjust

First up: De-schooling. Think of it as the “detox” phase where you shake off traditional school routines, bells, and homework. De-schooling gives everyone a chance to reset and ease into the homeschooling mindset.

What is De-Schooling?

De-schooling is about breaking free from the idea that learning only happens in textbooks and tests. Instead, let your kids rediscover the joy of learning by exploring their interests at their own pace.

How to De-School:

Take a Break: After leaving public school, take a few weeks or even a couple of months to relax. Learning will still happen—it just won’t look like formal schoolwork.
Follow Their Interests: Let your kids dive into what excites them, whether it’s dinosaurs, space, or cooking.
Go on Field Trips: Museums, parks, or the zoo are great places to explore together and ease into learning outside a classroom setting.

De-schooling helps your family transition to a more flexible, engaging approach to learning and gives you time to find a homeschooling style that fits.

Step 2: Find Your Homeschooling Style

Now that you’ve had time to adjust, it’s time to explore homeschooling styles. One of the best things about homeschooling? There’s no “one-size-fits-all.” You get to build an educational experience that works for your family, lifestyle, and kids’ needs.

Popular Homeschooling Styles:

Traditional/Structured: For kids who thrive on routine, this style mirrors public school with scheduled lessons, textbooks, and tests.
Unschooling: At the other end of the spectrum, unschooling lets kids learn through life experiences and follow their interests with minimal structure.
Charlotte Mason: This approach emphasizes nature studies, literature, and short lessons, blending a love for books with exploration.
Eclectic/Relaxed: If you want a mix, eclectic homeschooling combines elements from different methods, including textbooks, online resources, and hands-on learning.

How to Choose Your Style:

Observe Your Kids: Are they hands-on learners? Do they prefer reading or videos? Choose an approach that aligns with their natural learning style.
Be Open to Experimenting: Homeschooling is flexible. Try different styles, see what works, and adjust as needed.

Step 3: Set Up a Learning Space

One of the fun parts of homeschooling is setting up your learning space. You don’t have to recreate a classroom unless that’s your vibe! It can be as simple as a cozy corner with shelves and art supplies.

Ideas for Your Learning Space:

Keep It Simple: A table, comfy chairs, and a few shelves for books are all you need to create a learning environment.
Make It Inviting: Use colors, posters, or a reading nook to make the space inspiring.
Rotate Materials: Swap out books, puzzles, or science kits every few weeks to keep the space fresh and exciting.

A designated space helps kids get into “school mode” and adds structure to your homeschool routine.

Step 4: Make a Flexible Schedule

Homeschooling means you set the schedule. You’re not locked into a rigid timetable, so build a routine that works for your family. Morning lessons, evening lessons—whatever fits your flow.

Tips for Creating a Homeschool Schedule:

Start Slow: Begin with a few subjects each day, then gradually build up. Short, focused lessons can be more effective.
Block Time for Interests: Make time for kids to explore their passions, whether it’s art, music, or science.
Incorporate Breaks: Kids need playtime and movement to stay engaged. Homeschooling isn’t about sitting at a desk for six hours straight.

A flexible schedule helps you adapt to your child’s learning style and energy, making learning enjoyable for everyone.

Step 5: Find Support and Resources

Homeschooling doesn’t mean going it alone. There’s a whole community of homeschoolers out there. Connecting with others can make a huge difference.

Where to Find Support:

The HOM Network: We’ve got resources, lesson plans, and a community of homeschooling families. Whether you need curriculum ideas or just want to chat, we’re here for you.
Local Homeschool Groups: Check out co-ops or groups in your area. Many organize field trips, social activities, and group lessons.
Online Homeschool Communities: Facebook groups or homeschooling forums are great places to ask questions, share advice, and find inspiration.

A support system gives you advice, resources, and maybe some new friends to share the journey with.

Step 6: Reassure Your Child (and Yourself)

Leaving public school is a big shift, so it’s normal for both you and your child to feel uneasy. Take time to reassure them—and yourself—that this adventure will bring exciting new ways to learn and grow.

How to Help Your Child Adjust:

Talk About the Benefits: Share the perks of homeschooling, like learning at their pace and having more time for hobbies.
Listen to Their Concerns: Your child may miss their friends or feel unsure about homeschooling. Help them stay connected with friends while making new ones.
Celebrate the Wins: When they grasp a new concept or finish a project, celebrate! It boosts confidence and helps them see homeschooling positively.

Reassuring your child helps ease any worries about leaving public school and builds excitement for this new chapter.

Step 7: Trust the Process

Finally, give yourself permission to trust the process. Transitioning to homeschooling takes time. There will be days when things don’t go as planned, and that’s okay. You’re creating a learning environment where your child can thrive, explore, and grow.

Remember:

Adjust as You Go: Homeschooling is flexible, so change what doesn’t work.
You’re Not Recreating Public School: Embrace the freedom that homeschooling offers and tailor it to your family.

Trusting the process helps you and your child embrace homeschooling without the pressure to get everything perfect. Progress over perfection is the goal.

Transitioning to Homeschooling: A New Adventure

Transitioning from public school to homeschooling is a big change, but it’s also the start of an incredible journey. With patience, flexibility, and support, you’ll find your rhythm and create a homeschool experience that’s fulfilling for both you and your kids.

Remember, The HOM Network is here to support you with resources, advice, and community. Whether you’re new to homeschooling or looking for fresh ideas, we’ve got your back.

Welcome to the adventure of homeschooling!

— Sean Richard, Co-Founder & CEO, The HOM Network